If your intuition tells you that your husband has started an adulterous affair, you need to do some investigative work. Women’s intuition is a very powerful thing. When our husband starts to pull away, even slightly, we start to wonder what’s going on. If he suspects that your husband has a girlfriend, he should start paying more attention to certain things.
One of the easiest ways to determine if your husband has a girlfriend involves his car. In many families the wife is the one who tends to drive the family car the most while the husband has her own vehicle. If she thinks her husband may be cheating on you, take a few minutes to check her car. The first thing to do is check the passenger seat for stubborn hairs. If she’s been spending time with her new friend in the car, chances are there are some long brown, black, or blonde hairs on the headrest. If his hair color is different from yours and he hasn’t mentioned taking a friend or relative anywhere, your husband may have another woman in his life. Also try to keep track of your typical mileage to and from work. If he doesn’t do many errands in the car, but the mileage is higher each week than it should be, he may be driving to meet his girlfriend.
If you are responsible for the laundry part or all of the time, you can use this to your advantage when it comes to determining if your husband has a girlfriend. Check your shirts for signs of stubborn makeup. Although we’ve all heard of lipstick on the neck, many women also leave eyeshadow, mascara, or blush smudges on a man’s shirt if they’re hugging. As well as looking at the shirt before smelling it. Any hint of a feminine fragrance and you know something is wrong.
Many men become experts at hiding their emotions when they are having an affair. Many also get cheeky in contacting her lover, including sending her an email from her home computer or even talking to her on her cell phone late at night when they think he is asleep. If you think your husband has a girlfriend, he tries to sneak up on you when he’s using her computer or cell phone. There’s no point trying to read what he’s typing over her shoulder or leaning in to hear what he’s saying, but pay attention to her body language. If he is typing on his computer and has a big smile on his face, that may be a sign that he is sending emails or instant messages to his lover. The same applies when he is on the phone. If he speaks quietly but smiles broadly, it’s usually not a positive sign.
