If you’ve been kissing the same way your whole life, it’s time you learned some new kissing techniques. Some people are afraid to learn something new, because if they have been doing something routine for many years and suddenly change tactics, they are afraid that their partner might think they are having an affair.

You should have plenty of tactics up your sleeve; but you should only use a lot of them rarely. You don’t want to feel like you’re the swiss army knife of kissers. Kissing, like making love, is not something you should do as if you were following the steps of a book.

First, with all kisses, the sensitivity you use with your lips has a lot to do with your kiss. People might talk about ‘the way’ to kiss, giving instructions such as ’tilt your head to the side’; but usually they won’t emphasize that kissing is really a very complicated thing. What makes it so complicated is… you’re kissing a person, not a rock.

The most difficult moment will be the first time you kiss someone; however, that can also make it the most exciting moment. When trying out new kissing techniques, use the randomness of the moment at all times; if they are an attempt… be an attempt to come back for a while. Shake forward and then back off a bit. Stay away for a while, looking deeply into your eyes, reading what your body is saying. If there is a hint of fear in their eyes, back off a bit. It flutters with its mouth like a bird in flight waiting for the right moment to land. Imagine that you are a very sexy, elegant and daring bird. Make your imaginations project through your eyes. Talk with your eyes; but don’t be scared.

New kissing techniques should include lots of teasing. Just pout your lips as if you’re going to kiss them, then move a little closer. Look into your eyes and see if there is any noticeable relaxation of the eye muscles. There should be a melting sensation if you’re doing it right. Gently place the fingertips of your right hand so that you can feel the small of your back. Bring your head closer, brushing your mouth with your mouth slightly open and breathe in just a little warm air without pursing your lips. Observe the output and see if anything happens.

If they start to melt, acknowledge it with a sly smile. Bite your lip and then move closer until you almost touch. Lift your fingertips up, slide them gently along the small of your back, then push in just a touch as you let your lips touch for the first time. Then move your lips a few millimeters away and feel the warmth of his lips on yours. She should feel yours too. Being close to her, you can feel the warmth of her… you can feel how much they love you and how much you love them.

Stick out only the tip of your tongue and lightly touch your upper lip with it, not tickling, but lightly stroking. Tickling is always a turn off. Do things bravely, but not crudely. Pretend that her lips are her vagina. Lick between her slightly closed lips, sliding your tongue, waiting for her lips to part with desire. When they do, take the opportunity to lick a little deeper. Never put her tongue inside her.

She bites her upper lip and pretends it’s a slippery ice cream cone as both lips slide off her upper lip. Keep the movements very smooth and slow. Never press too hard, but too little can be very nice until you barely touch.

If your private parts start to get excited, you can lightly press on the person so they can feel it. Never grind, just brush them lightly to remind them she’s there. New kissing techniques mean, don’t kiss like you’ve never kissed before; kiss like someone else Do what you would never dare to do.