Young teenagers get married because they feel that they cannot do without each other. This is what is happening to many families lately and parents feel they have no choice but to accept it. Teenagers are growing up so fast, and they may not have the skills to make it.

Get pregnant

Some teens have sex as early as 12 years old and become pregnant and have children. Imagine that children have children and many of them have difficulty taking responsibility for raising their children; they depend on their parents to help them buy food, rent, clothes and diapers for their children.

government for help

Some depend on government assistance to meet their basic needs. Going from one parent assistant to another is the government for a young adult’s assistance.

Verbal and physical abuse

Some teen marriages are toxic relationships with verbal and physical abuse between them. Many teens have learned to verbally abuse their partner from their relationship with their parents and are incorporating it into their new marriage.

Responsibility

Children of teenagers don’t have a set meal or bedtime, and sometimes parents want to go out with friends and don’t take their responsibility seriously. Some find it difficult to make their priorities clear and continue to do things as if they were still single.

Young teens’ brains are still maturing and they’re working through the different steps of growing up, like dealing with rebellion and taking responsibility for keeping a job and budgeting their finances.

The setting is rebellion.

Sometimes teens don’t like to listen to their parents and they feel like they know more than their parents and this is a stage of their development. The stage is rebellion, it’s a stage that many teenagers go through to break away from their parents and create a new identity for themselves, and this stage is similar to when a two-year-old says “no.”

dealing with problems

Many teens don’t want to be told what to do as they make their way to adulthood because they have received so much from their parents and what they need is someone to be by their side whenever they need help dealing with some issues and not someone telling them what to do. do to keep them away from you.

Helping teens who want to get married is helping them with different scenarios (role play) before it happens as a way of preparing them, one of those examples would be about communication, another about setting short term and long term goals, how to deal with problems and how to deal with disagreement and get back on track. Helping young people who choose to get married is having short and long term goals and a mentor who provides guidance to face the different problems that will arise.

Conclusion: Most teen marriages may not last because their brains are still growing and they don’t have enough life experience and available options to make the decision to marry.